Tips For Picking A Flattering And Comfortable Sexy Lingerie

Oysters. Caviar. Chocolates. Many people eat these aphrodisiac foods, believing that these can let enhance the mood for love. You can take in all the aphrodisiacs that you would like, but there is actually nothing that can compare with confidence in stimulating desire between partners. Self-assurance is an essential element in making a successful bond both in and out of the bedroom as it can allow you to look sexy to your partner regardless of what size or shape your body has.

How you look has a strong influence on your confidence, so what you use and take off can have an important effect on you and your partner’s mood. Listed here are a few tips on choosing sexy lingerie to ensure a flattering and comfortable fit so girls can exhibit self-esteem whether they’re out on a casual date or lying down underneath the bedding with a special someone.

Be sure it fits well. Size is the most important thing to watch out for as distress in your underwear can eventually result you to feel less confident with your body. Saggy, loose parts can make you feel similar to an old woman or worse, not completely gifted and tight bras and bottoms can make you feel as if you have problem marks when you really don’t. Besides distorting your own perceptions about your body, ill-fitting underwear can cause frequent itching, pulling and adjusting, behavior that aren’t anymore sexy to look at.

Get simple hues. There’s an explanation white, black, red and muted colours are the most well-liked choices for sexy underwear: they are extremely complementing and not as annoying. Bright tones and busy styles can be very irritating. How about bare hues? Many do not see skin-tone lingerie alluring as it can look too utilitarian, even if you accentuate them with ribbons or lace.

Less is more. When it comes to lingerie sexiness, less is certainly more. Sheer materials, lace and fishnet styles help develop the mystery and intrigue around your body. Showing more skin is an indication that you are comfortable in your own skin, a factor that can definitely fire up the eagerness in your spouse. Several underwear makers, such as Maison Close, offer underwear that tactically hide essential parts while showing enough skin, perfect styles to tease your partner from his senses.

Accessories. Ribbons, straps, belts and harnesses can pose a sexy challenge when it comes time for you to undress, however, do take care not to go for too many accents that make undressing a complicated task. With that said, these accents can also help boost your body. For example, ribbons and straps can help lead eyes to your best parts while providing additional support for the chest and other parts. Accessories other than underwear, such as your favourite Lelo toy, can help spice up the evening further.

The Brief History of Sexy Lingerie

It is well recorded that the female figure varies a greatly. History shows that it has always been like this!

Historically, what’s been fashionable for the shape of the female body has gone from the sublime to the ridiculous! However, the dazzling female body has always been subject to what is covering it and history shows us that it’s been covered in many different ways. Also, different parts of the feminine form have been accentuated, concealed, reduced, enlarged by the style of the current fashionable frill fripperies.

We’ve witnessed some almost unthinkable extremes, from devices that required a small army to force the unfortunate fashion victim into, to the flimsiest, most whimsical mere flutter of a garment. Let’s take a trip back at how sexy lingerie has developed and how it got to where it is today.

To start with, let’s get some terminology straightened out. Thanks to the world’s most passionate language, we now usually refer to female ‘underwear’ as ‘lingerie’ – unless we’re being derogatory in which case, depending on where you live, you can fill in the spaces!

When we (at least us men) think of lingerie, we think of a flimsy material embellishing the female body in a way that gives us a hint of the pleasure that lie underneath. But the ‘first’ lingerie, probably from one of the Ancient Greek islands, was much different. These bewitching Greek women used a boned corset fitted tightly around the midriff, not for support or even for a ‘slimming’ effect, but to attract their men by showing their thrusting breasts in a most conspicuous way. Maybe not what we would call lingerie today but with much the same desired effect.

As time passed, the female form took on new ‘perfect’ shapes dependent on the vogue. As each ‘perfect’ form emerged, frill fripperies were perfected and developed to flatter and accentuate that desired shape. The culture of the society dictated whether the breasts, the bottom or both would be highlighted and glorified. You could argue that nothing much has altered!

During Medieval times it was thought that the natural form and shape of a woman should be constrained and that the breasts should be firm and small. This condition was probably admirable for those normally built that way but perhaps not so good for those of a more luscious construction. Many types of corset were worn with the single purpose of flattening the breasts and/or the bottom. It has been said that, in order to draw attention to that part of the anatomy that shouldn’t draw attention, some women folk wore small bells over their breasts to remind the men folk of the pleasure that still lay tantalizingly beneath.

The ‘modern’ corset is said to have been introduced by Catherine de Médicis, wife of King Henri II of France. She enforced a ban on chunky waists at court attendance during the 1550s and had a questionable effect on women folk for the next 350 years.

The Renaissance saw another change in the preferred female shape. Women now required cone shaped breasts, flat stomachs and slim waists. In order to actualize this look, they also needed to employ maids or family members to dress them because the cinching up of their corsets was done from behind and required much effort.

Due to this unnatural method of bringing about ‘perfection’, Doctors and other notaries contended that these corsets restricted women’s bodies so tightly that their internal organs were being impaired and their ribs were being permanently misshapen. Around that time it was common for women folk to collapse or fall into a swoon. This was usually put down to their delicate nature but, in fact, it was because they simply found it difficult to breathe! There are many accounts of women folk dying because of serious punctures to vital organs due to this practice.

In the early 18th century the whalebone corset still kept women folk tightly bound but the artistry that reflected the times was painstakingly incorporated into clothing and the corsets were decorated with dazzling ribbons, lace and embroidery. A part of this lightening up was the fact that it became fashionable for the breasts to be pushed upwards to the point of almost popping out.

Towards the end of the 18th century the corset was being worn by the gentry, the burgeoning middle class and even by nuns in convents. It was often proudly displayed by its wearer because it was a visible outer item of clothing at that time. In itself it was an object of beauty and ornamentation and its display was part of social civility.

However, as people became more educated and aware, they started to question and critique many things including art, politics and, you guessed it, vogue. Backed up by professional people like doctors, public opinion became such that boned corsets were actually outlawed in many localities.

By the early 19th century, a much softer approach to the female shape became popular. The vogue still demanded the support that the old corset had given so it returned with more elaborate methods of construction. Boning was still used in small sections which allowed for better and more comfortable movement.

The vogue at the time was for a more separated look for breasts and a corsetiere by the name of M Leroy (who designed the wedding corset for Marie Luise of Austria when she married Napoleon Bonaparte in 1810) perfected a model which he called a ‘divorce’, allegedly because of the ‘separation’ involved. The most significant aspect of this perhaps, was the fact that women folk were able to dress and undress themselves due to more elaborate lacing construction.

During the 1840s the extremely exaggerated shape for women folk caused whalebone to come back with huge hoops and crinolines that were covered with all kinds of fabric and fineries. Unfortunately for women folk, it became the vogue to have waists small enough for a man to put his hands around and the need for even harder waist-cinching became the female nightmare of the day.

It wasn’t long before hoops and crinolines were replaced by the soft ‘S’ silhouette. This style still used the corset but added a bustle to the back creating an exaggerated rump. Once again it was the women folk who had to suffer for vogue, needing to stand most of the time due to the cumbersome bustle on their rumps. Obviously men found this appealing because it gave them more opportunities to stare at the sexy women folk with their large bustles.

As more innovation came to vogue design, greater varieties of corsets were developed. During the morning, a lady could wear a lightly-boned corset for visiting friends, an elastic corset for riding sidesaddle, a boneless corset for an excursion to the beach and a jersey corset for riding her bike. The corsetry industry was in its heyday!

Towards the end of the 19th century the corset supported not only the breasts but also the newly developed stocking. Stockings were held up by garters and suspenders which were then attached to the corset. These devices, although a triumph of design, probably added yet another frustrating aspect to the vogue-conscious female of the day.

By the beginning of the 20th century, corsets were being laced down as far as the knee. But many people didn’t like that style, and vogue designers were leaning towards an uncorseted, more free-flowing style. Sexy lingerie was about to take a whole new dimension. With the advent of the industrial revolution, and the introduction of the sewing machine, Germany and France introduced the first corset manufacturing facilities.

In 1910 Mary Phelps Jacob a New York socialite developed a new type of bra. Not happy with the corset stiffened with whalebone which she was supposed to wear under a new evening gown, Mary worked with her maid to sew two silk handkerchiefs together with some pink ribbon and cord. It was much softer and shorter than a corset and it allowed the breasts to be shaped in their natural condition.

Mary Phelps Jacob was the first to patent an item of underwear named ‘Brassiere’, the name derived from the old French word for ‘upper arm’. a little while after, she sold the bra patent to the Warner Brothers Corset Company in Bridgeport, Connecticut, for $1,500 (over $25,600 these days).

In 1917 the War Industries Board of the United States asked women folk to stop purchasing corsets to free up metal for the production of war materials. This step released some 28,000 tons of metal, sufficient to build a pair of battleships.

It has been said that the success of the bra is due mainly to World War I. World War I altered gender roles for good, putting many women folk to work in manufacturing facilities and wearing uniforms for the first time. Women needed practical, comfortable undergarments. Warner went on to amass over 000 dollars from the brassiere patent over the next 30 years.

The other thing to take into consideration in the death of the corset was that World War I had taken its toll on the number of men. This meant more competition for finding a man so women folk needed to look their sexiest!

With the Roaring Twenties and its sophisticated parties, vogue was turned on its back, the boyish look was in. The crusade for flat chests and stomachs along with straight hips and buttocks led to the introduction of the liberty bodice, the chemise, and bloomers which were loose-fitting and light. For the first time pastel-colored underwear appeared to replace plain old-fashioned white. To enhance the boyish look the first brassieres were perfected to flatten the breasts. What happened to the corset? The rump part that held up the stockings was shortened and became the suspender belt.

The full-figured look came back in the 1930s. The feminine look once again became the vogue. Women were encouraged to look well-proportioned with a full-figure while remaining reasonably slim in the hips. Now women folk had a full set of underwear to help with the image: breast-enhancing brassieres, elastic suspender belts, not forgetting the girdle, which kept all the curves in their designated place.

The 1930s also saw one of the biggest advancements in the underwear industry when the Dunlop Rubber company developed Lastex, an elastic, two-way stretch textile made from the fine thread of a chemically modified rubber called Latex. This could be interwoven with fabric which allowed the industry to make underwear in several sizes to appropriately fit a woman’s body.

The beginning of World War II and its shortages meant that Germany was unable to import the fabrics they had used up until then and their industry failed. Forever inventive, people started making home-knitted underwear out of materials to hand. Not the sexiest of lingerie but at least they kept themselves warm.

At the end of hostilities underwear consisted of basic brassieres and suspender belts. This was acceptable to the majority of women folk but the teenage girl, just coming out of the oppression of the war years, became a target market. These young females could barely wait to become adults and wearing lingerie was a huge way towards achieving that aim. The German underwear industry developed lingerie sets that appealed to these young girls and the industry never looked back.

In the U.S.A., the underwear industry was trying to create something new and cutting edge. Women were bombarded with all kinds of undergarments and top clothing to help them look sexy. The film producer Howard Hughes developed a new bra, a special wire-reinforced device for Jane Russell. This caused the censors throw their toys out of the crib about Jane’s breasts being blatantly exposed all because of Hughes’ terrifically innovative bra improvements.

The Swinging 60s was a terrible era for the underwear industry thanks to the rise of women’s emancipation movements. Feminists burned their brassieres and many lingerie companies were forced to close down. However Lycra had just been developed and women folk began to wear tight-fitting leggings. The iconic vogue item of that era however, was arguably the sexy little mini-skirt and the demand for bikini briefs. Famously, for a fleeting moment in time, topless swimsuits and topless dresses were the rage. But, unfortunately for most men and fortunately for the vogue industry, they were merely a ‘flash-in-the-pan’!

A Man’s Cheat Sheet To Buying Sexy Lingerie

As a man, I know absolutely nothing about choosing lingerie and a lot of men fall into this category. How confusing is it? Well let’s see, what type of lingerie should you buy? What size does she wear? What color would she choose? How are we supposed to know all this without sending the wrong message? Following is a man’s cheat sheet to buying sexy lingerie for your significant other.

There are a few things to think about before you buy lingerie. First and foremost, don’t get it wrong or you will find yourself on the living room sofa. What are her likes and dislikes? Keep in mind that you will not be wearing this-she is, so get something she will like. If she likes it, it will show and you just scored. If she is not into the frilly, lacey see-through teddies, and you end up buying that, good luck getting her to wear it. You might as well throw your money out the window, because that is where that lingerie is going – the big black hole at the bottom of her lingerie drawer.

If you want to get an idea of what she likes, check out her lingerie drawer. Check out the materials of what she currently has in her drawer. Check out the style that she likes and most importantly, check the size. If you only remember one thing, remember her size. If you get her something too big, in her mind you just let her know that she is overweight. If you get it too small, she might think that’s cute or think that this is your way of telling her she needs to lose a few pounds. I’ve been there, done that and, trust me, you don’t want to be there. Not a good thing, we are talking a few days or a week of nothing. If the label has the word “Control” run, do not walk. These items are used to flatten, or firm, their mid-section and gluteus maximus (her ass). It’s a way for us to get into that no win zone. If the items in her lingerie drawer are not exactly what you had in mind, get her two things, one for you and one for her.

If the store you are purchasing the lingerie from offers gift wrapping. Spend the additional few dollars to get it gift wrapped for a better presentation. Think of this as a sales presentation to a new customer. If you decide to wrap it yourself to save a few bucks, at least go out and buy wrapping paper that she did not buy. Trust me, she knows what wrapping paper has been stored away in the closet. If you’re uncomfortable shopping for lingerie in a retail store, then research online shops that sells lingerie. You can also start at Victoria’s Secret or Frederick’s of Hollywood, and many of the major department stores also offer lingerie. Remember – keep your receipt just in case.

Now, what to look for. There is every single type of lingerie that you can think of and then some you did not even know existed! Ask yourself what your purpose is and understand the occasion. If you’re trying to tell her that she is the love or your life, a crotchless or skanky outfit won’t cut it. But if it’s your anniversary or Valentine’s Day you will probably get a much better response. If you’re just buying lingerie for the hell of it, be careful. One of two things can happen. First, she could be so surprised and think how thoughtful you are, and then one thing leads to another. Secondly, you buy the lingerie and she wonders if you’re guilty of something or who did you see wearing this lingerie that you want her to wear it. At this point, it depends on the relationship you have with your partner. I have been married quite a few years and the reaction I get is the latter. There are so many styles and variations that it’s difficult to get a handle on it. Look for something that is not too difficult to put on. Don’t buy something that she cannot even figure out. If she can’t get it on, you’ll be fumbling to take it off. The bras alone have numerous designs including rise, plunge, gel filled, padded, under wire, seamless, backless, strapless, open cup, and unpadded. Can someone please tell me what the differences are, I mean, a breast looks good in anything (preferably nothing)! You may want to do a little bit of research online and look for something not too complicated, she won’t wear it that long anyway.

If you are purchasing a bra and panty set, go back to her lingerie drawer and look at the size of her bra and panty. Sometimes they are the same size. But it would suck if you buy her a bra and she is more endowed than other women. The majority of stores have bra and panty sets for sale, but they also sell them separately so you can mix and match. You would think that panties (is panties still used these days?) would be easy to pick out. I mean I have two kinds, boxers and Hanes underwear also known as tighty whities. For women it is a whole different story, they have classic briefs, high cut briefs, control briefs, hipster, bikini, boy shorts, tanga (what the heck is a tanga?), thong and G-string (my personal favorite). Again, check her drawer, see what she has. Its OK, she won’t get angry even if she catches you. OK, OK mine would question me.

Unfortunately when it comes to sleepwear, it can be just as complicated. There is a sleepwear called babydoll pajamas. They normally have very thin straps, a plunging V neckline, matching panties and are usually made of silk or satin. Most women just love silk and satin. My wife’s personality changes when she is in satin or silk. She gets a little frisky! I’ve never been yelled at while she was wearing these materials. However, if she feels her breasts are too big, too small, droopy, or thinks her belly is too huge, you might want to avoid babydoll pajamas.

Then there are slips and chemises. They are similar to the babydoll pajamas, but a little longer and a little better at concealing what women consider their problem areas. Such as busts, back end or tummy and usually made of silk or satin.

Gowns are similar to the babydoll, but a longer version. Again, you have a wide variety of styles from see-through, lacey, and slightly more demure. Plus it comes with a robe.

A pajama set may not sound too sexy, however if it is silky, and buttons up the front, it can make your lady feel very sexy, especially if she is a plus size (size 18 or bigger). Boxer sets have ended up being preferred lately. The tops are tight, with thin bands and typically a V neckline, although there are boxer sets with regular t-shirt tops. Used primarily for sleeping, which is not what I had in mind when I did this article, but I had to include it.

A great place to look for lingerie to spice up your love life is online sexy lingerie boutiques. They have a wide selection of lingerie, and toys, for every occasion. They offer a wide variety of bustiers, corsets, teddies (another word for babydolls) garter belts, crotchless panties, and fishnet stockings. These items are normally not available at your regular department stores. Online stores will have unlimited choices and varieties as compared to a retail establishment. Online you also have anonymity, you won’t run into your church pastor/priest/etc. at the mall while buying your sexy lingerie.

The type of lingerie you purchase for your partner depends a lot on her self-esteem. Lots of big women love attractive little teddies, but some will avoid them, for fear of exposing too much of themselves. The majority of shops offer lingerie in plus sizes, which are a little less revealing. No matter what her size or shape, lingerie will make her feel sexy, look sexy, and good things always come your way when that happens.

Sexy Lingerie For the Plus Size Women

Sexy Lingerie and body size shouldn’t mean much as it pertains to provocative! Several people have this image in their head that a 36 x 24 x 36 is the shape to be and just these types of girls look amazing in sex lingerie. Well let us tell you that you’re wrong. These women do look lovely in lingerie, but they are not the only ones. In fact it makes no difference what your body shape is, and every woman looks great in lingerie.

We need to understand that every woman-no matter her size, shape, age, or skin color is beautiful. Each of us has varying taste as far as what we see as sexy. Plus size women are just as hot as a runway model, or a black woman; to white women. The point being what is unappealing to one is beautiful to another person.

Women as well as men will fluctuate in their appearance and some lose weight others will gain. This is simply a fact of life and sexy comes mostly from within and is displayed mostly by attitude.

We all have special features that another cannot resist. For instance many people like small breasted women while others love the Double D Breasts. Some like Plus size also known as BBW (Big Beautiful Women). Many like the women with big booties, and Hips. No matter how beautiful is defined it is in one’s mind. Beautiful women are found around the world and each needs to be admired and cherished as for their unique attributes, and always remember that these women are seen as beautiful by many and loved by somebody!

When a woman puts on that sexy lingerie and gets herself made up it is very difficult to resist her appeal. She knows what makes her partners blood boil with desire. She is so sexy and provides the initial stimulation to get her partner in the right frame of mind; and with a little effort from the Adult Sex Toy world; this hottie will rock someone’s world. The lingerie industry has a ton of items available to enhance the sexiest aspects of any woman. Some of the clear favorites would include a sexy leather cupless outfit that allows the mid section to be covered with the breast exposed for kissing and touching. Crotchless is another favorite also allowing for the touching and kissing. Perhaps a costume like a Playboy Bunny or School Girl is to your liking. No matter the choice you can be sure that a woman is truly a vision of heaven when she presents herself to her partner in sexy lingerie. So no matter her age, color, size, or shape – she is sexy hot!

So be careful not to judge anyone, because we are all sexy in one way or the other. Also don’t forget to take a look at yourself and make sure that if you do judge others; you too may be judged. Don’t waste life on strong opinions as there is always a counter argument. We say all women are beautiful and Sexy lingerie will simply accent that fact!

5 Ways To Make You Look More Sexy

Every woman is greedy – they want to be more and more and more sexy and they are never satisfied. Being sexy is not only a status, but also an attitude towards your life. Are you ready for some spicy, sexy and juicy relationship tips? Here we go.

1. Low pitch is the key note

When you are in bed or you want to make this night a crazy one, just talk with him in a pitch that is a little lower than the one you usually have. Talk to him from his back and mix some breath with your voice, just like you start to be turned on by him.

2. High heels are always the heroines

High heels make you stand straight and the figure of your butt and boom in a sexier shape. When women are wearing high heels, they unconsciously walk slower and each step is smaller.

3. Body lotion is a good helper

I think the best chance to seduce a man is the time when you are applying body lotion. The right way is: when you are wearing a silk pajama, sitting on your bed and make sure your pajama is not very long, for your legs could be seen. Apply some lotion in your hand and slowly put them on your leg from the bottom to the top until you reach the end of your thigh. Usually men are definitely turned on at this time, and some massage is more helpful!

4. Wear sexy lingerie under your most common T-shirt and jeans

This is simple and you don’t need any guidance, I think. The only thing you have to do is to put on your weapon and wait for him to discover your hot secret! Imagine how surprised he will be when he sees your sexy lingerie hiding under your most common clothes!

5. Sex toys? They make big deals!

Buy your favorite sex toy – it could be fancy, the latest product of your favorite brand. Hide it in your wardrobe and next time you are making love with him, tell him your secret.

Read This Before Downloading Any Adult Sex Guide

The online world is actually inundated with adult sex guides. Just try searching for them on your favorite search engine and you are going to see such a lot of them waiting for you. They are all priced differently according to what they are supposed to contain and they contain different things as well. But, the point is, do you really need an adult sex guide?

The question you have to ask yourself is why you are looking for such a book to help you. Definitely the answer is that you are looking at improving your sexual performance. You are looking at giving your woman greater pleasure in bed. And you are hoping that the tantalizing sex guide you are looking forward to download will help you with it.

But, the fact is, no sex guide can help you if you don’t help yourself. These are some points you have to consider beforehand.

1. Good sex doesn’t come without a good equation with your partner. Yes, there are books that will train you in the pure art of carnal sex, but if you are in a long term committed relationship, then such a book won’t help you. Probably you will need a book that will tell you how to construct a better relationship with your partner than just some meaningless sex.

2. If you indulge in a great deal of foreplay, you can arouse your woman immensely. This is something that can really help you in what lies ahead. Maybe you won’t need the adult sex guide to spice up your act after that.

3. Another thing you have to consider is that you will need to actually implement the things that are mentioned in the guide if you want it to be effective for you. You cannot just read the book and then not implement it. Then it would be a futile exercise. In all probability the book is going to tell you about how you can have some more daring sexual experiences to make things more exciting-you have to be able to use that.

These are some of the things that you have to consider before downloading any adult sex guide. Will you be able to do it? That’s the question you have to answer.

How to Carefully Approach Adult Sex Dating

I think there comes a point when we have to stop being a society in denial. The internet is a place of all sorts and adult sex dating is one of the realities of the internet-dating world. Not everyone is looking for a relationship and not everyone is looking for a date to spend the night. There are some of us with a clear understanding of exactly what they want in life and I think I can applaud them for being honest with themselves. Dating sites that are specific about their intent and their demographic are quite readily available online, with varying names – some famous and some not.

They also are quite a few that cater to very specific sexual and niche interests, I mean the world is made up of all sorts and the internet has allowed them to find a place in the world where they can find like minded individuals who would be able to share their same likes and dislikes. Some of us have higher libidos than other’s and are much more comfortable with our own sexualities. This is the driving force behind these websites and dating services. It isn’t because that society has become perverted and that they need to run to the corners of the digital world to see their interests expressed.

It is much the other way around. Some of us have matured more than others and we need to see that human are murals of expression and we are built with different colours of the human spectrum. We cannot always have a negative thought to those who are honest about themselves, we cannot treat them as outcasts of society just because we cannot understand them. We must be patient, we must be accepting, we must be enlightened. Yes the adult sex dating scene is a dangerous world with potential stalkers and nefarious beings but these dating sites are pretty secure in their treatment of their subject matter. Privacy is at an all time high and the quality websites filter all the potential malware, scams, pornographic companies that try to infiltrate their databases to garner more business. Adult sex dating is all about the physical relationship and the discovery of both pleasure and physical attraction. But this does not mean that it cannot be pure.

There are those who will take advantage of the system and there are those who are in it because it is a part of their lifestyle. Normally, the end users of these websites will be able to weed out these individuals and get them banned. There are quite a few quality adult sex dating sites online and you can spot them because of the fact that they are discreet, offer a comprehensive security warning, have many pages of disclaimers and require that you complete and fill out a personal particulars form before you continue – one that has to be verified through email. These precautions and more are there to keep out the black hats and make adult sex dating a safer experience for those who would like to find an avenue to express themselves.